The day’s materials
Emergency Services, Disaster Response and Mutual Aid
Healing for Trauma and Loss
Lamentations 3:19-26
Old Testament
Remember my affliction and my misery, the wormwood and the bitterness. My soul still remembers them, and is bowed down within me. This I recall to my mind; therefore I have hope. It is because of the LORD’s loving kindnesses that we are not consumed, because his mercies don’t fail. They are new every morning. Great is your faithfulness. “The LORD is my portion,” says my soul. “Therefore I will hope in him.” The LORD is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him. It is good that a man should hope and quietly wait for the salvation of the LORD.
Matthew 11:28-30
New Testament
“Come to me, all you who labour and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”
Lamentations remembers bitterness. It does not rush past it. “My soul continually remembers,” it says, and is bowed down. And then, almost astonishingly, it turns: “But this I call to mind, and therefore I have hope.” The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases. New mercies meet the morning.
Jesus speaks to those who are tired in the deepest sense: weary and burdened. “Come to me,” he says, “and I will give you rest.” Not the quick rest of distraction, but the rest of being held. His yoke is easy, his burden light.
Trauma and loss often make time strange. The body remembers. The mind replays. Grief arrives in waves. Healing is rarely linear; it often comes in small returns of breath. Scripture does not demand that we get over it. It teaches us to bring it to God, and to take shelter in mercies that return, quietly, again and again.
Lord Jesus, receive those who cannot carry what has happened. Give rest to the exhausted, comfort to the grieving, and healing to the traumatised. Hold them gently. Do not let them be alone. Teach us to be patient with one another’s pain, and to trust your mercies for each new day.
Prayer Points
- Give rest to the weary and burdened, especially those carrying grief, shock, and trauma.
- Heal minds and bodies affected by disaster: anxiety, sleeplessness, flashbacks, and numbness.
- Comfort those who have lost loved ones, homes, or security; give patient companions and practical help.
- Give wisdom to counsellors, chaplains, and carers; protect them from secondary trauma and fatigue.
- Make the Church a gentle place where lament is permitted and hope is tended carefully.